You’ve not let your Dad down, far from it. I’m so sorry to read this thread and really empathise with the difficulties sometimes experienced with some health ‘professionals’ however my gut feeling on reading this is that advisedly you’ve got your big girl knickers on (I completely get how knackered and sad and hopeless you feel though but I’m not going to bore you with how) as it is the CH that is letting him down. To be labelled as hysterical and histrionic by the CH is unforgivable - they need to be asking themselves what is fuelling their perception as they are certainly pouring petrol on you the carer’s and daughter’s burning coals of fears for their parent and loved one.
If you can bear it, you need to make those Bridget’s (Jones knickers) armour-plated as you are clearly rocking their boat and it needs to be rocked - how dare they?!
Document the lot and share it as much as you can and are willing to.
There should be a palliative team assigned here as well as the GP and what is happening to all the Oramorph that he’s not getting to control his pain? Not a conspiracy theorist but it really does sound like there’s something else going on here and you and yours are having to run the gamut to get to the bottom of it.
Wishing you huge strength, do not give up! (((((((( hug)))))))
If you can bear it, you need to make those Bridget’s (Jones knickers) armour-plated as you are clearly rocking their boat and it needs to be rocked - how dare they?!
Document the lot and share it as much as you can and are willing to.
There should be a palliative team assigned here as well as the GP and what is happening to all the Oramorph that he’s not getting to control his pain? Not a conspiracy theorist but it really does sound like there’s something else going on here and you and yours are having to run the gamut to get to the bottom of it.
Wishing you huge strength, do not give up! (((((((( hug)))))))