Morning all,
Don't worry Spamar - Old Red is staying red, we've even had paint mixed to match her original shade
Out yesterday, we saw a newer version of a VW camper, that was actually beige - not nice, at all! Hope you are having a lovely time at LA and glad to hear the cakes are being enjoyed
Hope your son enjoyed his birthday, JM - sounds like it got off to a good start with pancakes
Sorry if I misunderstood about your Mum, hun - just some of the things in the first post sounded so familiar - though with Mil, you had to add in, in the last couple of months, sundowning and delusions, which were the major reason for an end to independant living for her
Clean plates all round with the lunch Essie, so I'm guessing the family enjoyed it at least
Mil seemed to spend all day flapping about one thing or another, for the most part, with the delusions flowing thick and fast. Stupidly, we talked about taking oldest back in the afternoon in front of her and that led to about 3 or 4 hours of her constantly wanting to put on her coat, re-apply lipstick, change into shoes, change her clothes and ask 'are we going yet' over and over, as she thought we were leaving right now to go on holiday, go to the dance, go to pick up 'the lads', go to take daughter to airport, going to a show, etc., etc. She couldn't sit still and couldn't go for more than a minute at most without asking the same questions over and over, calling me from the kitchen in a panic-stricken voice to ask did I know where her bag was? Or where had I put her new dress? She kept looking for a long list of non-existant items, asking me where I had put them - eventually, when she started on about a book that she had 'promised to lend' to oldest, I explained nicely that I didn't know anything about any book. She called to daughter in the front room, and daughter very nicely explained that no, it was OK, she hadn't asked to borrow any book - and Mil called the two of us liars
My patience was wearing very thin at this point and I called OH and told him he had better deal with her for the next hour or two before we left as my ears were ringing!
Eventually into the car at about 4pm and off, and Mil kept up a stream of 'will we miss the plane?', 'Where's that other lady gone?' 'Will the lads be ready for us?' - at one stage, from what I could hear, she seemed to be telling oldest that we were going to Manchester to
pick up her Granddaughter! She thought we were going to London, to Limerick and worried where the cases were. After we dropped daughter off, and Mil got tearful about saying goodbye, within maybe 3 minutes of us driving off, Mil had a completely different story in her head about where we had been and why - when OH reminded her we had just left oldest at her digs, that she was going back to uni, Mil was most indignant that no one had told her that her oldest granddaughter had been home - because (Mil said) she certainly hadn't seen her. Then all the way home it was comments like 'Limericks changed a lot from last time I was here', 'Oh God - we've left the little lad behind!', 'S*** - turn back, we havent got all the cases!', 'Ann - we forgot to check the apartment before we left!', 'Wheres the bag of shopping that i bought?'. On and on and on and on , one thing after another and barely pausing for breath in between.
Back home I did a quick, light tea and all the while she wittered on, with the dreaded 'home' appearing and her getting increasingly naggy and rude. Every 60 seconds 'S*** - are you taking me home now?'. OH would explain ( through gritted teeth) that her house was sold, that she lived here and each time she would say that she knew that, but she has another house that we 'know nothing about' and she wanted to go back there. Her language got worse, her attitude got nastier - and by 7.30, less than an hour after we had returned home, she had been told, very firmly, to go to her room. She refused initially and told OH where to go in very unladylike language, but when he stayed firm, up she went and got into bed. We worried that we would almost certainly have a bad night with her sleeping so early, but at that point we really needed the peace and figured we would risk her going an hour earlier. At 8.30, took up meds and made sure pull ups were on, she settled straight back down - and other than guiding her back to her room from the bathroom around 3a.m., we haven't heard a peep all night.
Housework, paperwork and drooling on the agenda for me today
Drooling over the camera I ordered last night, that is, which should get here tomorrow or Wednesday - I really need a second camera for weddings, as back up and for when quick lens changes are needed (a second camera fitted with the alternative lens would be a Godsend at times) and after much discussion and because we are not wealthy, made the decision to go for a second hand full frame DSLR - so I have a 5D mk1 on its way to me. A few scuffs on the body, but in excellent working condition and I am so excited - I've wanted a 5D for 2 or 3 years and though the latest version (seling at just over £3,000!) would be ideal obviously, I am more than happy with the older version I now have - can't wait to get it and try it out.
Hope you all have a good day xxxx