So bizarre !
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Ditto
Would it be feasible, possible, to contact new consultant about this idea of involving Dr R in the meeting and find out if they can over ride Dr R being consultant of choice by HB manager and have their input to the meeting?
Ahh sorry, just read you have the same idea. It might be worth giving new consultant a heads up that this meeting is being arranged
So pleased that mil enjoyed her fish
Good morning Ann,
This is a ridiculous situation and pure politics and delaying tactics to try and wear you down. To involve the old Dr (he is not a consultant as he is not a Mr) is insulting to all the efforts you and your MiL's care team have gone through and have tried to sort out. What is even more insulting is the Mr's claim that MiL now is suffering brain damage as a result of his own prescribing!
Sadly, having gone through various other life events I learnt it is better to get even rather than mad. The more you can do to come across as balanced and meticulous, the better. You are already doing a fantastic job.
I hope this is alright, have been a long time reader and stood back in amazement and respect at your organisational abilities, there are a couple of suggestions. I appreciate you must be feeling cross and drained and do not want to push any more.
Firstly, write a summary of the phone call. I note the woman does not appear to have given anything in writing. That, frankly, smells, as she can wriggle out of anything she has said. Send her a summary just to 'check your facts' with her. Also, send that summary to Mr Gethin.
To add grist to your mill, sorry to suggest this, send the list of the medications to the Pharma manufacturers and ask them for any comments on the multiple prescribing and claims of brain damage. The fact you can say you have done it tends to get a level of concern that can concentrate minds as it smacks of going down the legal route. Mind you, you could just raise that you are considering doing so.
If that appears to be too much of 'legal route' is there anyone who can help you find a consultant geriatrician who can give an input and comment on what has occurred thus far? I have found: http://www.bgs.org.uk/. There are abstracts on there which will give names.
UCL (University College London) has this: https://search2.ucl.ac.uk/s/search....ry=geriatrician&profile=_website&tab=websites
You MiL has a legal right to a second opinion. Many moons ago I worked as a Medical Secretary in a health centre. One patient had a clear broken leg but did not believe the diagnosis and insisted on a second opinion as he was fed-up with his cast. He got sent to a Harley Street specialist who confirmed the diagnosis. Now that, in the sceme of things, is minor compared to what you MiL is going through.
Power to your elbow and wishes of success.
This is a ridiculous situation and pure politics and delaying tactics to try and wear you down. To involve the old Dr (he is not a consultant as he is not a Mr) is insulting to all the efforts you and your MiL's care team have gone through and have tried to sort out. What is even more insulting is the Mr's claim that MiL now is suffering brain damage as a result of his own prescribing!
Sadly, having gone through various other life events I learnt it is better to get even rather than mad. The more you can do to come across as balanced and meticulous, the better. You are already doing a fantastic job.
I hope this is alright, have been a long time reader and stood back in amazement and respect at your organisational abilities, there are a couple of suggestions. I appreciate you must be feeling cross and drained and do not want to push any more.
Firstly, write a summary of the phone call. I note the woman does not appear to have given anything in writing. That, frankly, smells, as she can wriggle out of anything she has said. Send her a summary just to 'check your facts' with her. Also, send that summary to Mr Gethin.
To add grist to your mill, sorry to suggest this, send the list of the medications to the Pharma manufacturers and ask them for any comments on the multiple prescribing and claims of brain damage. The fact you can say you have done it tends to get a level of concern that can concentrate minds as it smacks of going down the legal route. Mind you, you could just raise that you are considering doing so.
If that appears to be too much of 'legal route' is there anyone who can help you find a consultant geriatrician who can give an input and comment on what has occurred thus far? I have found: http://www.bgs.org.uk/. There are abstracts on there which will give names.
UCL (University College London) has this: https://search2.ucl.ac.uk/s/search....ry=geriatrician&profile=_website&tab=websites
You MiL has a legal right to a second opinion. Many moons ago I worked as a Medical Secretary in a health centre. One patient had a clear broken leg but did not believe the diagnosis and insisted on a second opinion as he was fed-up with his cast. He got sent to a Harley Street specialist who confirmed the diagnosis. Now that, in the sceme of things, is minor compared to what you MiL is going through.
Power to your elbow and wishes of success.
Oh Ann! It is not often that words fail me, but it seems to be an increasingly common phenomenon when trying to respond to your posts. It is upsetting even to imagine MIL's distress and the toll this is all taking on you (((hugs)))
Yes, I do think the new consultant should be alerted asap. He will be a busy man and might not be able to drop everything and attend the review at short notice. The more warning you give him, the better the chance of him being able to attend. If it will be impossible for him to get there, could you ask for a copy of his records and/or a letter outlining his opinion about the previous treatment? Anything that shows Mr R in a poor light will be helpful to you.
I am so glad that MIL was calm when you visited and enjoyed her fish and chips Another good thing about the 1:1 is that the person with MIL can take as long as needed to help her eat, they will not be under pressure to rush off and see to anyone else.
(((hugs))) to all.
Yes, I do think the new consultant should be alerted asap. He will be a busy man and might not be able to drop everything and attend the review at short notice. The more warning you give him, the better the chance of him being able to attend. If it will be impossible for him to get there, could you ask for a copy of his records and/or a letter outlining his opinion about the previous treatment? Anything that shows Mr R in a poor light will be helpful to you.
I am so glad that MIL was calm when you visited and enjoyed her fish and chips
Another good thing about the 1:1 is that the person with MIL can take as long as needed to help her eat, they will not be under pressure to rush off and see to anyone else.(((hugs))) to all.
@ohknickers - the new consultant is the one who believes Mr R (he is a consultant physician, thus a Dr, but Ann refers to him as Mr to differentiate from MIL's GP) caused many of the problems by over prescribing. This new consultant seems to be on the ball and Ann is going to try and get him to attend the review meeting.
Totally disgusted too Ann. If that manager put as much energy in to caring for vulnerable people and keeping them safe as she does in twisting and turning to save money then what a service you would have in your area!
If you can find the energy, I'm another who would recommend contacting the newer consultant and following up with an email for The Trail.
Sending you as much support as I can possibly muster in this continuing struggle. Xxx
If you can find the energy, I'm another who would recommend contacting the newer consultant and following up with an email for The Trail.
Sending you as much support as I can possibly muster in this continuing struggle. Xxx
Firstly, do you have an email for this woman? If not, my advice would be that you contact her on the direct line, ask her for her direct email and say you wish all interaction to be in writing in the future - should she not wish to do this then you will assume she gives permission for all telephone calls between you to be recorded.
When you have the email, slap in a Freedom of Information request for all correspondence she has, including emails and notes of conversations, pertaining to MiL. There is nothing like a FoI request to put the wind up these people, in my direct experience.
Do you have the right to refuse the old consultant being involved on the basis you have no confidence in him, so would reject any opinion he offers? Can you refuse the OT from her department and insist that an independent OT is found? I just don't know how the system works. I'd be tempted to put in writing that if seating is suggested and provided that proves unsuitable and MiL comes out of said seating and injures herself, you will take the matter through official and legal channels.
Finally, take heart from the insincere sweetie-pieness. You've got her rattled. If she gets any further rattled she may just go away and seek her savings elsewhere. (Would a pay cut be too much to ask?!)
When you have the email, slap in a Freedom of Information request for all correspondence she has, including emails and notes of conversations, pertaining to MiL. There is nothing like a FoI request to put the wind up these people, in my direct experience.
Do you have the right to refuse the old consultant being involved on the basis you have no confidence in him, so would reject any opinion he offers? Can you refuse the OT from her department and insist that an independent OT is found? I just don't know how the system works. I'd be tempted to put in writing that if seating is suggested and provided that proves unsuitable and MiL comes out of said seating and injures herself, you will take the matter through official and legal channels.
Finally, take heart from the insincere sweetie-pieness. You've got her rattled. If she gets any further rattled she may just go away and seek her savings elsewhere. (Would a pay cut be too much to ask?!
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Ann, my initial reaction is to suggest you copy your 2 posts from today into an email to the minister (Gethings?) that you contacted. Your post is heartfelt and sincere and no-one could fail to see that.
I am so sorry this continues on.
Hugs xx
I am so sorry this continues on.
Hugs xx
Definitely got that woman rattled. Wouldn’t trust her an inch/ 2 cm!
My own problem is that, on receiving and checking the latest bank statement, there are several items on it that are none of my doing. I haven’t lent my card out, I don’t live with anyone, I have never written the pin down. So, several lengthy calls to the bank fraud squad. They have said I will get the money back, but, naturally, have stopped my card. Luckily, I had taken out cash last week, so no problem there!
So now I wait for card and pin.
There’s always something! My mobile gave up the ghost last week, got another one, but thought it was unfit for purpose, but found a few more things on it this morning (!), so now I guess I’ll cope. I wish they wouldn’t write the instructions in such small print, we haven’t all got 20/20 vision!
Ann, hope things get better from now on, but watch out for that woman!
Red, you must be such a proud grandmamma!
Everybody, have as good an evening as possible!
My own problem is that, on receiving and checking the latest bank statement, there are several items on it that are none of my doing. I haven’t lent my card out, I don’t live with anyone, I have never written the pin down. So, several lengthy calls to the bank fraud squad. They have said I will get the money back, but, naturally, have stopped my card. Luckily, I had taken out cash last week, so no problem there!
So now I wait for card and pin.
There’s always something! My mobile gave up the ghost last week, got another one, but thought it was unfit for purpose, but found a few more things on it this morning (!), so now I guess I’ll cope. I wish they wouldn’t write the instructions in such small print, we haven’t all got 20/20 vision!
Ann, hope things get better from now on, but watch out for that woman!
Red, you must be such a proud grandmamma!
Everybody, have as good an evening as possible!
Spamar, I do hope your new card is with you soon and you get the fraudulent charges reversed without any problems.
Ann sosorry to hear about latest kerfuffle.
Only thought is if you or oh has h & w poa can you refuse for dr r to have any involvement in MIL'S care. It would seem a fair use of h & w poa.
I think foi request seems good suggestion as well.
Only thought is if you or oh has h & w poa can you refuse for dr r to have any involvement in MIL'S care. It would seem a fair use of h & w poa.
I think foi request seems good suggestion as well.
Love to all the Mac’s
Just an aside. My daughter had problems with PayPal. Someone cleared her bank account through PayPal. Luckily she noticed very quickly and has been refunded the money.
I immediately tried to close my PayPal account but for some reason was unable to, so I closed the direct debit at my bank
Just received an email from PayPal telling me that they cannot pay outstanding payment as I need to authorise with the bank....
Not me requesting a payment to be made... can only think it’s a scammer
Just an aside. My daughter had problems with PayPal. Someone cleared her bank account through PayPal. Luckily she noticed very quickly and has been refunded the money.
I immediately tried to close my PayPal account but for some reason was unable to, so I closed the direct debit at my bank
Just received an email from PayPal telling me that they cannot pay outstanding payment as I need to authorise with the bank....
Not me requesting a payment to be made... can only think it’s a scammer
This baby! Gorgeous from the moment she was born and now such a character too! The gleam in those eyes. Can’t believe she’s three months already.
Sorry to be three days late with response, but huge thanks for fabulous photo, she’s made my day. C. xxx
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Ann I’m sorry not to be saying anything but I simply haven’t got the words. Totally disgusted about sums it up for me too. May I just send you my most heartfelt good wishes and tsunami sized waves of support to you and family. Also very, very impressed with daughter’s intitiative, empathy and follow-through. Love C.
Morning everyone,
Again, massive thanks to each and everyone of you for the support and advice xxx
Spamar, so sorry to read about the hassle with the card. There do seem to be a lot of incidents involving fraudulent use of cards happening at the moment. Oldest dau had her card used to purchase several things on-line, about 2 weeks ago, and both her pay-pal account and email were hacked at the same time. She spotted it quickly, thank goodness, and got it sorted, but such a pain in the btm to deal with. Sending {{{{hugs}}}}
I will be emailing the HBM (Health Board Manager) probably on Wednesday afternoon, but before I do that, I need to speak to Mil's new consultant on Wednesday morning, Dr S, at the medical review. Firstly to ask if she can attend the CHC review next month, and secondly, to get her opinion on the points raised by the HBM, which I think (and the CH think) she is likely to use to try and remove 1-1 care. Specifically, the suggestion that Mils behaviour has been caused by recurrent infections, and the insistence that an 'in house OT' should see if they can come up with some sort of seating that will stop Mil ending up on the floor, either through deliberately throwing herself to the ground or through her writhing, wriggling and jerking herself off the seat, due to the TD.
There is plenty of documented evidence that infections, whilst they may have caused some worsening of the behaviour when Mil has had them, overall have had nothing to do with the decline that has led to the need for 1-1 . That need is down to the TD, and the increased psychosis caused by a combination of the dementia and over-use of meds. I've already explained this to the HBM, as have the CH and even the CHC assessor who came out to see Mil, but she seems inclined to ignore and ride over what we have said - I think it needs the clout of the new consultant to get through to her. My big concern here is that the HBM and Dr R may try and insist on more medication, possibly in the form of extremely strong anti-biotics. Struggling to find a way of writing exactly what it is that worries me about that, and a little worried about how it might come across. But - taking a deep breath - I'll be blunt. She is dying. Declining physically, getting frailer, breathing getting worse, and basically slowly but surely her body is 'shutting down'. That's the opinion of the staff, nursing staff and her new consultant. And I can see for myself that they are right - it may be days or weeks away, but its happening - and I hope that everyone understands me saying that its time now, that this is what is right and best for her. She has been through enough. To give her continuous strong antibiotics could prolong this process for her, whilst at the same time give unpleasant side effects, upset stomach, vomiting, etc. And will probably do absolutely nothing to relieve the TD symptoms or agitation. I feel so strongly that at this point, all emphasis should be about making this last part of the journey as comfortable and comforting as is humanly possible - not experimenting with yet more meds that could extend and make this stage horrendous for her.
The talk of an OT to look at 'chairs' worries me. After the CH trying out alternative seats that would prevent Mil ending up on the floor, and not finding anything that she couldn't get out of, the only thing that seems to be left is to look at restraint, particularly as one of the issues is Mil falling from her bed as well as chairs. The CH - and I - guenuinely believe that if bed rails are put in place, Mil's strength and ability to 'thrash' her legs and arms around will lead to probably injury, and possibly, her managing to throw her legs/body over the rails, and her ending up with an even more serious injury due to falling from what amounts to a greater height, or banging herself on the rails as she falls. As for a waist strap or similar in a chair, the huge concern there is that it will cause her immense distress and agitation, and the poor woman is distressed enough - to take action that would almost certainly increase her misery and upset is cruel. She already has a tendency to gouge at herself, and pull her own hair out when she is frustrated and upset, there is real concern that preventing her from moving from her seat will increase the liklihood of self injury, and also increase the incidents of her hitting out at staff/residents if they get within her reach. She is still considered to be 'mobile', because she can still get herself up and walk on occasion. Because of this, as I understand it, any form of restraint would be usually considered totally inappropriate, especially as restraining someone to a bed or chair increases the risk of bed sores, and her skin integrity is already compromised as a result of skin tears and severe bruising. Again - an 'experts' opinion on this will, we think, carry more clout than anything we say.
If the HBM comes up with anything that may make Mil's quality of life better, then I am more than happy to consider it. But, there are two major obsticles to taking that approach. Firstly, the worry that if we agree to try something new, that the 1-1 will be withdrawn before we know if the 'suggested solution' works or not, and then we will face a huge battle to get 1-1 back. And secondly, by far the biggest concern is knowing that anything the HBM suggests is going to be based around saving money. No matter how skillfully she tries to present her suggestions as being in 'Mil's best interests', we all know what her bottom line is.
The email will also say that I have 'no confidence' in Dr R, in light of the concerns raised by the CH, and request that he is not involved. I don't know if the HBM can ignore/over rule that request - it seems like she can interpret the rules and make decisions as she wants, no matter what I or anyone else thinks - but I want a paper trail of that request being made. In the meantime, I have asked the CH to provide me with the notes that pertain to how many times they approached Dr R for help and advice, and his responses. I have only seen a few so far, none of them show him in a good light.
The suggestion to request to see all notes/correspondence relating to Mil under FOI is brilliant - Thank you Red I'll be following that up - and I've also requested from the CH a list from Mils notes of all her medications, what was prescribed and when - and by whom. So many different consultants involved in her care - I need to be sure about who prescribed what - and why! I think, no matter how I approach fighting for Mil, all that information will be very useful to have.
Visited Mil yesterday, but found her deeply asleep, and I only stayed 20 minutes or so. I know the bean bags on the floor are the safest option for her at the moment - but dear God, its pitiful to see little, frail Mil sleeping on the floor, with bean bags and mattresses and cushions heaped around her, her legs and arms sticking out and covered in bruises and tears. Add a few cardboard boxes, and she would look like a bag lady. Her door is left open, to accomodate the bean bags and make easy access if more staff have to rush in, in an emergency. I see other visitors passing and looking horrified at seeing her like that. Just no dignity for her left at all, all I can do is be glad that she is probably totally unaware of just what her current situation is.
One nice thing during the visit was that several staff I saw came over to thank me for the email I sent to the head office, saying thank you to them all for fighting so hard for Mi, and for caring for her. I am so glad I made the time to do that - it seemed to mean an awful lot to them all.
OH went back to work yesterday - thankfully! Because having a bloke recovering from Man Flu in the house is a bit like living with Victor Meldrew ! Youngest is actually being Ok, none of the major tantrums/kick offs that I have been anticipating (well, not so far, anyway). Meanwhile, we have booked the travel for us to go to Ireland to see my sister at the end of next month (so looking forward to that!) and, having had a run of bad nights, have at least had time to catch up on sorting photographs and get on top of the housework (You have to lok for the silver lining where you can, I guess!). Today, I will pop to see Mil again and just pootle I guess.
One of the photographs I've finally edited, I thought I would share. I have a 'thing' about damsel and dragon flies, I think that they are just beautiful, and on one of OH's kayaking runs, wandering by the river, I saw dozens of my favourite species of damsel - the Beautiful Demoiselle. They are absolutely stunning little creatures
Much love to all of you xxxxx
Again, massive thanks to each and everyone of you for the support and advice xxx
Spamar, so sorry to read about the hassle with the card. There do seem to be a lot of incidents involving fraudulent use of cards happening at the moment. Oldest dau had her card used to purchase several things on-line, about 2 weeks ago, and both her pay-pal account and email were hacked at the same time. She spotted it quickly, thank goodness, and got it sorted, but such a pain in the btm to deal with. Sending {{{{hugs}}}}
I will be emailing the HBM (Health Board Manager) probably on Wednesday afternoon, but before I do that, I need to speak to Mil's new consultant on Wednesday morning, Dr S, at the medical review. Firstly to ask if she can attend the CHC review next month, and secondly, to get her opinion on the points raised by the HBM, which I think (and the CH think) she is likely to use to try and remove 1-1 care. Specifically, the suggestion that Mils behaviour has been caused by recurrent infections, and the insistence that an 'in house OT' should see if they can come up with some sort of seating that will stop Mil ending up on the floor, either through deliberately throwing herself to the ground or through her writhing, wriggling and jerking herself off the seat, due to the TD.
There is plenty of documented evidence that infections, whilst they may have caused some worsening of the behaviour when Mil has had them, overall have had nothing to do with the decline that has led to the need for 1-1 . That need is down to the TD, and the increased psychosis caused by a combination of the dementia and over-use of meds. I've already explained this to the HBM, as have the CH and even the CHC assessor who came out to see Mil, but she seems inclined to ignore and ride over what we have said - I think it needs the clout of the new consultant to get through to her. My big concern here is that the HBM and Dr R may try and insist on more medication, possibly in the form of extremely strong anti-biotics. Struggling to find a way of writing exactly what it is that worries me about that, and a little worried about how it might come across. But - taking a deep breath - I'll be blunt. She is dying. Declining physically, getting frailer, breathing getting worse, and basically slowly but surely her body is 'shutting down'. That's the opinion of the staff, nursing staff and her new consultant. And I can see for myself that they are right - it may be days or weeks away, but its happening - and I hope that everyone understands me saying that its time now, that this is what is right and best for her. She has been through enough. To give her continuous strong antibiotics could prolong this process for her, whilst at the same time give unpleasant side effects, upset stomach, vomiting, etc. And will probably do absolutely nothing to relieve the TD symptoms or agitation. I feel so strongly that at this point, all emphasis should be about making this last part of the journey as comfortable and comforting as is humanly possible - not experimenting with yet more meds that could extend and make this stage horrendous for her.
The talk of an OT to look at 'chairs' worries me. After the CH trying out alternative seats that would prevent Mil ending up on the floor, and not finding anything that she couldn't get out of, the only thing that seems to be left is to look at restraint, particularly as one of the issues is Mil falling from her bed as well as chairs. The CH - and I - guenuinely believe that if bed rails are put in place, Mil's strength and ability to 'thrash' her legs and arms around will lead to probably injury, and possibly, her managing to throw her legs/body over the rails, and her ending up with an even more serious injury due to falling from what amounts to a greater height, or banging herself on the rails as she falls. As for a waist strap or similar in a chair, the huge concern there is that it will cause her immense distress and agitation, and the poor woman is distressed enough - to take action that would almost certainly increase her misery and upset is cruel. She already has a tendency to gouge at herself, and pull her own hair out when she is frustrated and upset, there is real concern that preventing her from moving from her seat will increase the liklihood of self injury, and also increase the incidents of her hitting out at staff/residents if they get within her reach. She is still considered to be 'mobile', because she can still get herself up and walk on occasion. Because of this, as I understand it, any form of restraint would be usually considered totally inappropriate, especially as restraining someone to a bed or chair increases the risk of bed sores, and her skin integrity is already compromised as a result of skin tears and severe bruising. Again - an 'experts' opinion on this will, we think, carry more clout than anything we say.
If the HBM comes up with anything that may make Mil's quality of life better, then I am more than happy to consider it. But, there are two major obsticles to taking that approach. Firstly, the worry that if we agree to try something new, that the 1-1 will be withdrawn before we know if the 'suggested solution' works or not, and then we will face a huge battle to get 1-1 back. And secondly, by far the biggest concern is knowing that anything the HBM suggests is going to be based around saving money. No matter how skillfully she tries to present her suggestions as being in 'Mil's best interests', we all know what her bottom line is.
The email will also say that I have 'no confidence' in Dr R, in light of the concerns raised by the CH, and request that he is not involved. I don't know if the HBM can ignore/over rule that request - it seems like she can interpret the rules and make decisions as she wants, no matter what I or anyone else thinks - but I want a paper trail of that request being made. In the meantime, I have asked the CH to provide me with the notes that pertain to how many times they approached Dr R for help and advice, and his responses. I have only seen a few so far, none of them show him in a good light.
The suggestion to request to see all notes/correspondence relating to Mil under FOI is brilliant - Thank you Red
I'll be following that up - and I've also requested from the CH a list from Mils notes of all her medications, what was prescribed and when - and by whom. So many different consultants involved in her care - I need to be sure about who prescribed what - and why! I think, no matter how I approach fighting for Mil, all that information will be very useful to have.Visited Mil yesterday, but found her deeply asleep, and I only stayed 20 minutes or so. I know the bean bags on the floor are the safest option for her at the moment - but dear God, its pitiful to see little, frail Mil sleeping on the floor, with bean bags and mattresses and cushions heaped around her, her legs and arms sticking out and covered in bruises and tears. Add a few cardboard boxes, and she would look like a bag lady. Her door is left open, to accomodate the bean bags and make easy access if more staff have to rush in, in an emergency. I see other visitors passing and looking horrified at seeing her like that. Just no dignity for her left at all, all I can do is be glad that she is probably totally unaware of just what her current situation is.
One nice thing during the visit was that several staff I saw came over to thank me for the email I sent to the head office, saying thank you to them all for fighting so hard for Mi, and for caring for her. I am so glad I made the time to do that - it seemed to mean an awful lot to them all.
OH went back to work yesterday - thankfully! Because having a bloke recovering from Man Flu in the house is a bit like living with Victor Meldrew ! Youngest is actually being Ok, none of the major tantrums/kick offs that I have been anticipating (well, not so far, anyway). Meanwhile, we have booked the travel for us to go to Ireland to see my sister at the end of next month (so looking forward to that!) and, having had a run of bad nights, have at least had time to catch up on sorting photographs and get on top of the housework (You have to lok for the silver lining where you can, I guess!). Today, I will pop to see Mil again and just pootle I guess.
One of the photographs I've finally edited, I thought I would share. I have a 'thing' about damsel and dragon flies, I think that they are just beautiful, and on one of OH's kayaking runs, wandering by the river, I saw dozens of my favourite species of damsel - the Beautiful Demoiselle. They are absolutely stunning little creatures
Much love to all of you xxxxx
How bizarre all of these sound indeed and it is weird that lots of animals are involved. Mum watches nature documentaries and is always on the look out for crocodiles in the back garden! Yesterday, I woke her up at 2pm as she was still sound asleep from 11pm the night before and she asked me if she' had to go to school today' and I said no, it was Saturday! She was so relieved but she clearly thought I was her mum...
