To Val
God Bless you val.I,ve been to the exact same place that you are at now,all I could give my Anna was those tiny sponges soaked in water,I used to try to feed her with he help of Syringes,but had to stop when she aspirated,the nurses didnt seem to know how else to treat her,thankfully she passed quietly away that weekend,she was in a comatose state,now she is at peace,but it is you and I that will continue to suffer,you will see Hazel on the forum has a motto,grieve not for what you have lost,but rejoice for what you have had.
That helped me,but I still miss her,it is only that I am a contrary old sod that I keep on living,you now have your life to get on with,treasure your memories.As for me I am hoping to be re-united some time soon,Cheer up I am looking forward to it
God Bless!