Hi everyone
I’m new to this but am hoping to get helpful information.
My husband ,87, was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and vascular dementia in December 2020(over the phone due to Covid-19) I suspect that it has been around for a while but between July 2018-August 2020 he had sepsis 4times and each time became mentally worse.
He is very mobility disabled, very poor eyesight and does little more than sleep.
He has for weeks now not wanting to stay in bed but keeps getting into his chair near the bed and when I tried to get him back to bed he says he is in bed. I have been having very little sleep and am exhausted. He will be having respite in November.
My question is this.
Should we move 70+ miles to be nearer family? We have lived in our present home for 24 years, have all the necessary equipment.
Will the move be too much for him?
I’m also concerned that if we move and I loose him I will only have family to rely on and not our wonderful neighbours and friends
I know my family are trying to help me but I’m concerned about be able to get carers etc.
Please could I have some thoughts please. Thank you
I’m new to this but am hoping to get helpful information.
My husband ,87, was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and vascular dementia in December 2020(over the phone due to Covid-19) I suspect that it has been around for a while but between July 2018-August 2020 he had sepsis 4times and each time became mentally worse.
He is very mobility disabled, very poor eyesight and does little more than sleep.
He has for weeks now not wanting to stay in bed but keeps getting into his chair near the bed and when I tried to get him back to bed he says he is in bed. I have been having very little sleep and am exhausted. He will be having respite in November.
My question is this.
Should we move 70+ miles to be nearer family? We have lived in our present home for 24 years, have all the necessary equipment.
Will the move be too much for him?
I’m also concerned that if we move and I loose him I will only have family to rely on and not our wonderful neighbours and friends
I know my family are trying to help me but I’m concerned about be able to get carers etc.
Please could I have some thoughts please. Thank you