My wife has Vascular dementia, started around 5 years ago. It is gradually getting worse. She also has major bowel problems with a possible stoma operation. Before Christmas, I awoke in the middle of the night & found my wife kicking my head & completely disorientated. She was trying to get out of bed to the toilet. This has happened a about a half dozen times now but with different stages of disorientation. The last one I found her in the corner of the bedroom opposite the door to the toilet. When she does wake, she has to get to the toilet quickly or she has an accident. She wears panty liners all day but between toilet visits, leaks frequently. It's the disorientation that concerns me most. Looking for suggestions.