Hi all
Let us be clear from the start, the pickle is of her own making, but it is now engulfing all of us and the pressure cooker is about to EXPLODE. MIL has always been my way or no way but since SIL started caring? ITS WORSE. MIL is making her life a misery asshe is expected to dance attendance every minute of the day and the night as well, if MIL can get away with it. If SIL is putting a load in the washing machine MIL has been left for hours (wet, hungry , thirsty etc. offer her the loo, food, tea etc, NO doesn't want unless SIL comes apologising. If SIL is on the phone MIL starts making noises like an amimal being tortured or kicking the furniture or screaming, same if any of the other residents comes to the door of the flat, MIL kicked off in the residents lounge this morning because she thought SIL had been talking for someone too long, not even a minute by my watch. Since SIL cancelled the carers MIL will not let anyone else take her to the toilet, prepare food or drink., so SIL is on the phone all the time bemoaning her lack of life and afraid am tempted to say "We told you this is what would happen". On a practical note where do we go from here, MIL also tried to hit me with her walking stick as I told her SIL is not her slave.
This is much condensed.
Regards
C
Let us be clear from the start, the pickle is of her own making, but it is now engulfing all of us and the pressure cooker is about to EXPLODE. MIL has always been my way or no way but since SIL started caring? ITS WORSE. MIL is making her life a misery asshe is expected to dance attendance every minute of the day and the night as well, if MIL can get away with it. If SIL is putting a load in the washing machine MIL has been left for hours (wet, hungry , thirsty etc. offer her the loo, food, tea etc, NO doesn't want unless SIL comes apologising. If SIL is on the phone MIL starts making noises like an amimal being tortured or kicking the furniture or screaming, same if any of the other residents comes to the door of the flat, MIL kicked off in the residents lounge this morning because she thought SIL had been talking for someone too long, not even a minute by my watch. Since SIL cancelled the carers MIL will not let anyone else take her to the toilet, prepare food or drink., so SIL is on the phone all the time bemoaning her lack of life and afraid am tempted to say "We told you this is what would happen". On a practical note where do we go from here, MIL also tried to hit me with her walking stick as I told her SIL is not her slave.
This is much condensed.
Regards
C