Well today is the day I finalise everything. Never thought I'd be doing this for my sister especially so soon. I have a final chat with the BIL to confirm everything but there has been a spanner in the works as a relative on dads side of the family who died on the same day, also rather uncannily has her funeral on the same day at the same time, so Aunt Ruth has asked if we can change the time so she and our cousins can attend both -of course I will see if there is a later slot, fingers crossed, otherwise they will split up and some will come to Karens -you just couldn't make it up could you??