I had a big blow up with my brother over my Dad these last couple of days. We were scheduled to have a family dinner this past sunday. The facility he is in advised that we cancel the dinner due to the stress it was causing Dad. He was getting extremely agitated just thinking of this dinner. Dad had a blow up in the dining room making quite a scene and calling off the dinner. My brother is now blaming me because the dinner was cancelled. My brother sent me quite a scathing note today regarding the situation. I was following the advice of the home which now has advised me they are monitoring Dad to see if he needs to be moved to a more controlled environment.
How do you handle a sibling that only causes problems, offers no assistance, but ready to criticize immediately and play the blame game? I am sole POA because of past actions of my brother who can not have legal authority ever with the courts. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
Thanks
Cheryl
How do you handle a sibling that only causes problems, offers no assistance, but ready to criticize immediately and play the blame game? I am sole POA because of past actions of my brother who can not have legal authority ever with the courts. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
Thanks
Cheryl