I used to think it was some sort of fear.I think that we can spend a long time trying to work out why relatives do or don’t do.
In the end it’s pure selfishness and a lack of empathy that ( perhaps) they grow up with or is driven by the type of society we live within.
Yes it gets to me when I think of our sons lack of involvement, even just asking after his mum would be nice, I’d accept that. But I’m never going to change him. At the beginning of all this, 3 years ago, he said “ I’m not like my sister and I’ll be glad when it’s all over”. I struggle with those words even now but I feel when Bridget isn’t around anymore he’ll think differently.
MaNaAk