So today it’s taken tears (mine!) to get OH to have a shower. First in 3 weeks. What will it take next time?? When I suggest he has a shower he just says ‘why?’ He won’t accept help, I’m at a loss to know what to do. He just doesn’t think there is anything wrong with him. Today he watched the Great North Run on TV, he used to run marathons and I asked him if he wished he was there, he said yes, he would get back to running one day! Cricky! It’s all he can do to shuffle round Tesco leaning on the trolley!