my mother has late stage Vascular Dementia and my father died suddenly on Friday. We have told mum dad has died, she appeared to understand this, cried then instantly forgot. Mum is constantly asking for dad and looking for him. I think she thinks he has gone away and left her. Dad was her main carer, she will not allow anyone to do her personal care and she cannot do this herself. Wexare having to look at residential care homes.
My dillema is, do we take mum to dads
funeral? Does anyone have any experience of this please?
My dillema is, do we take mum to dads
funeral? Does anyone have any experience of this please?