I sometimes feel I always have a difference of opinion - lol
My mum's had Alzheimer's for approx' 15 yrs now. She's been in the current care home for over 5 yrs now.
They didn't use to ask me about the flu jab but started to about 3 yrs ago.
Now I have tried to keep mum to have things as I know she would have wanted to have things, she's always been very, very fussy and had extremely strong opinions on medicines - she would never take antibiotics and definitely not have flu jabs!
So I have said no but when we applied to have her care homes fees paid for, I forget the name for this - sorry - and saw a social worker and health visitor or similar they had a real go at me for not allowing flu jabs.
The social workers reasoning was that if mum caught flu she would suffer.
Personally I think she's suffering more by lying in a bed for over 3 yrs, looking like someone who's been in a concentration camp (I cannot believe anyone can still be alive whilst they are literally just skin and bone) - to me this is not a life in any sense of the word.
She doesn't speak, there's no form of communication and I just want it to end ASAP for her.
I thought if she got flu it would hopefully bring her suffering to an end more quickly.
But then I thought about it and started to feel really guilty. So I now say yes to it, even though I know she would be extremely angry to be given this!
I am diabetic and am entitled to flu jab too - but the first time I had this, the side I was injected on got flu and I was so ill for the next 24 hrs I was off work! So since then I've never had the jab again!
Let's hope I never go in a care home!