My Mother was diagnosed with Dementia a year ago and has been getting steadily worse. She lives on her own and has done for over 25 years. She is very independent, however this illness has made her vulnerable in that she doesn't eat regularly enough, her personal hygiene is declining and she has also been conned out of money for services/items she doesn't want or need. In addition to her dementia, she also drinks approx. one bottle of wine a day, upon her diagnosis, it was noted that she has alcohol dependency which resulted in her being declined for treatment by the memory clinic. I am worried about her safety and wellbeing, she is reluctant to accept help and is adamant she doesn't want to go into a nursing home.
I want to do what is best for my Mother but am unsure what the options are. One thing I have been thinking of is selling my house (I live with my husband and two teenage daughters) and my Mum's house and combining our money to buy a bigger house. If I do this, I am looking to move my Mother out of the area where she currently lives. I was wondering what other members thought of this? If you have done this, what is your experience and what would your advice be? Thanks
I want to do what is best for my Mother but am unsure what the options are. One thing I have been thinking of is selling my house (I live with my husband and two teenage daughters) and my Mum's house and combining our money to buy a bigger house. If I do this, I am looking to move my Mother out of the area where she currently lives. I was wondering what other members thought of this? If you have done this, what is your experience and what would your advice be? Thanks