I moved my Grandmother into a Care Home at the beginning of March after my Grandfather (who was her primary carer) passed away. She has mid-stage Alzheimer's I would say. The care home is 2 minutes from my house, whereas where she lived before was an hour away, so she went into the Home with the promise of seeing me and her Grandson far more. She settled in brilliantly and then lockdown hit and obviously the promised visits couldn't happen. I had to take her mobile phone off her during lockdown as she was calling me 100+ times day and night which was disturbing her sleep and causing distress when I didn't answer.
For the last 6 weeks I have been able to visit in the garden / through windows and have seen a steady decline in her mood - she started very excited and now appears very down every time I see her. She believes she has been sent to a "Workhouse" and hates the work, is shouting at other residents that they are stealing her money and identity and also that I am 11 years old and have been taken from her (I am nearly 35). Unfortunately I am the only family member that can visit (her sisters live in a Care Home in Scotland - we are in England).
Obviously a lot of this is her dementia, I understand that entirely, and the lockdown situation has perhaps made things worse for her, but I am not sure what to do. I have left her with the "task" of drawing a picture for my son and starting to knit a blanket for my little girl who is due in November - both of which her key carer is going to support and help with.
The home have been fantastic and supportive, but it's heartbreaking to see my Gran so upset and down...
For the last 6 weeks I have been able to visit in the garden / through windows and have seen a steady decline in her mood - she started very excited and now appears very down every time I see her. She believes she has been sent to a "Workhouse" and hates the work, is shouting at other residents that they are stealing her money and identity and also that I am 11 years old and have been taken from her (I am nearly 35). Unfortunately I am the only family member that can visit (her sisters live in a Care Home in Scotland - we are in England).
Obviously a lot of this is her dementia, I understand that entirely, and the lockdown situation has perhaps made things worse for her, but I am not sure what to do. I have left her with the "task" of drawing a picture for my son and starting to knit a blanket for my little girl who is due in November - both of which her key carer is going to support and help with.
The home have been fantastic and supportive, but it's heartbreaking to see my Gran so upset and down...