Hi Sue, welcome to the maze that is "respite" for the under 65's. In this area (Essex) we have no day care services for the under 65's...........and certainly no full respite services for same.
I have been using a privately funded retirement home for the past three years for Lionel. It has worked well up to now, but costs £600 per week.
However he now needs help with dressing and undressing, so I do not know whether they will take him next time I request., not incontinent, just wet bathroom floors etc....
It is a minefield, and I do despair as to where I will go from here. I am looking for a permanent home, but one that maybe, for the next 2 years (fingers crossed) I could just access for respite. NOTHING. No one can offer rolling respite, which SS and Carers Support say I need. On top of which we have todays's news from NICE......
Sorry to go on............but I am very distressed today. Love to all, Connie