My parents are both moving into a care home but in separate rooms. Mum (80) has dementia and dad (88) doesn’t so they will be in separate but nearby bedrooms so dad can get respite and rest. They will be able to see each other during the day. However mum hates being alone at night and is scared of the dark, always needing lights on. She calls out to my dad at night “are you there?” and sometimes manages to get up and climb into his single bed.
I am interested in suggestions about how we can help mum to cope with sleeping alone for the first time in 59 years. The care home is telling me not to worry and they will manage it. But is there anything the family can do?
I thought about buying a baby monitor with screen so mum can see dad sleeping, but actually she doesn’t even see him when he’s in bed next to her which is why she calls out. She is partially sighted and often keeps her eyes closed.
perhaps just hearing his breathing on a baby monitor would help?
Your thoughts would be appreciated. Thank you.
I am interested in suggestions about how we can help mum to cope with sleeping alone for the first time in 59 years. The care home is telling me not to worry and they will manage it. But is there anything the family can do?
I thought about buying a baby monitor with screen so mum can see dad sleeping, but actually she doesn’t even see him when he’s in bed next to her which is why she calls out. She is partially sighted and often keeps her eyes closed.
perhaps just hearing his breathing on a baby monitor would help?
Your thoughts would be appreciated. Thank you.