K they have also mentioned EMI home for my dad.... You never know it may go section 3? But the nurse today when asked indicated probably will be a dols...
You have an impressive amount in your area and that's so great for you and your wife, still such a shame it came to it hey, it's hard to deal with this emotional cra*p everyday!
You get used to one thing, then your onto the next thing, I am running around blind folded and naive with all this...
I just think my dad is getting a bit of a raw deal here, yeah give him nursing care, yeah give him a dols, yeah take all his money...
He is ill with Alzheimer's an acute illness he can't help, he can't fight! And he has to pay for his care!
Our people paid taxes all their life and work hard and get stuffed over when they need nursing help!
And charging minimum £1,000 per week!!! How the hell do they get away charging these costs!
All I got yesterday oh your dads to challenging for us to deal with him! (Care home queries yesterday)
So these homes want your money with little effort for it!!!
And these were homes advertising Alzheimer's care etc, how the hell can you advertise as Alzheimer's specialist home and then say no your dads section 2 so no thanks!!
Even a nursing home said no thanks as he is medically not clapped out enough!!! We only deal with people that need nursing needs!!! (At this point bashing my head against brick wall)
One nursing home said no we don't want your dad, we are currently dealing with a lady slinging plates of food around and throwing plates at us!! My dad has not even raised one finger at anyone!!! But deemed to challenging!!
This stuff is as confusing as hell!!!
Note to homes... Don't advertise as being dementia or Alzheimer's specialist and not expect challenging behaviour!!! This world is messed up!!!
Ps homes should advertise as long as your family member is easy we will take them... Easy money, for little effort as long as they are not hard work!
Sorry if I offend anyone, but this all wound me up so much yesterday, I rang several homes, Alzheimer's, dementia, nursing etc and they all said no!!!
The only one that would consider him was a normal residential home who deal with early to moderate Alzheimer's.... They actually listened when I explained about him..... And said if he does not get into the one I am trying at present, then they would assess him... It took me 4 hours ringing around with a very sore head by this point....
I am so scared the current home that's is assessing him will reject him
I am scared I will be left with no choice but send him to a nursing home miles away...
I am scared they will take all his money.... He worked hard for that money and when he is ill he is ripped off!!!!
The the government moving the goal post on the care cap to 2020!!!!
Why should all these people have to sell their homes to pay for care when they are ill!!!!
Sorry rant over, hope I don't offend anyone, but this makes my blood boil!
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