Hi all, my father has recently been diagnosed with Alzheimer's although he has had problems on & off for at least 8 years. My mother is still alive & is his primary carer and my siblings and I live a fair distance away. I am struggling with how I can help them both, especially as I am a physically disabled person myself and cannot do much practically speaking. I can feel myself grieving already as my Dad didn't recognise me over Christmas and I just need to chat with people who know what we are all going through. Any advice is appreciated too, thank you.