Hello, I found this site while surfing in the middle of the night. While it may not answer my questions it is both comforting and unsettling to know I am not alone. My mother passed away suddenly a week ago. For years she had refused to admit there was anything wrong with my father or even discuss it. She wore the pants. Myself, brother and sister are watching Dad. At night things change. My sister no longer stays at night as he made advances towards her thinking she was his wife. Tonight my brother and I are staying. He had kissed me earlier in a non fatherly way. I am writing this sitting in the living room with my brother as Dad has demanded I go up to bed with him. Returning twice to warn me that he was angry that I did not move. Threatening to give me a clip around the ear and even turning on my brother. I stayed calm but am shaking inside. Any advice how to deal with this situation? Thank you for listening.