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Sad loss

Time trader

Registered User
Dec 30, 2014
17
It has been a long time since I posted anything and even then it was to say how difficult we were all finding it to cope with our Dad's dementia.

Sadly I now have to say that Dad passed away a short while ago. The cause of death was other medical problems but I believe the dementia played a big part in so far as he would forget to drink enough, forget to take antibiotics properly and forget to eat properly etc.

Dad's dementia was quite mild in comparison to some comments that I have read on this forum and I feel the distress and pain in each and every one of you.

Our Dad's suffering is over now and I hope a cure for this dreadful condition is found very soon.

Finally, to all those caring for a dementia sufferer and all those suffering with the disease at any stage I send my heartfelt best wishes and regards and sincerely hope that each and every one of you finds some kind of calm, relief and respite from the turmoil and anxiety the condition brings.
 

cragmaid

Registered User
Oct 18, 2010
7,941
North East England
You have my sympathy for your loss. However the final moments happen and whatever caused them, it is still the loss of your Dad and you need time to grieve.
Take care of yourself, Maureen.
 

tryingmybest

Registered User
May 22, 2015
631
I am so very sorry for your loss. Its two years yesterday since I lost my Dad from this illness and now am caring at home for Mum with the same. Its never easy to lose a parent especially in this way and I do so feel for you. Take care of yourself. xx
 

sleepless

Registered User
Feb 19, 2010
3,223
The Sweet North
Please accept my condolences for the loss of your dad. I hope you are comforted by knowing he is now free of illness and at peace.
It is so thoughtful of you to think of all those still coping with dementia, thank you.
 

Chuggalug

Registered User
Mar 24, 2014
8,007
Norfolk
Time Trader - I've never come across you before on here, but I couldn't read this and not respond. What a lovely message you ended with. My heartfelt sympathies to you on the loss of your father. I know what it's like when a parent isn't there any more. It leaves such a hole. I wish you love and peace.
 

Izzy

Volunteer Moderator
Aug 31, 2003
62,058
69
Dundee
I'm sorry to read of your dad's passing. Please accept my condolences.

What a lovely post. It's so kind of you to think of others living with dementia at this time when you are grieving.
 

LYN T

Registered User
Aug 30, 2012
6,960
Brixham Devon
Please accept my condolences for your loss. I hope that you find strength to cope with your grief and find peace in knowing that your Dad is no longer in pain and confusion.

Take care

Lyn T XX
 

Rageddy Anne

Registered User
Feb 21, 2013
5,984
Cotswolds
Dear TimeTrader, how lovely of you to think of others at what must be such a very sad time for you. Losing a parent leaves such an empty place in your life, and I send you my very deepest sympathy. You have been strong, and now you will need to take good care of yourself. With love, Anne. XX
 

nannylondon

Registered User
Apr 7, 2014
2,475
London
Hi Time Trader my deepest sympathies to you for the loss of your dad
Just wanted to agree with others how kind of you to think of others at a sad time in your life it is a lovely post so thanks
 

chick1962

Registered User
Apr 3, 2014
11,282
near Folkestone
So sorry for your loss Timetrader and I echo what everybody already said, how lovely and kind of you to think of others at this sad time xxxx


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stanleypj

Registered User
Dec 8, 2011
10,708
North West
So sorry to hear of your sad loss. Your final paragraph will be appreciated by many, I'm sure, as will your thoughtfulness at such a difficult time.
 
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geum123

Registered User
May 20, 2009
4,604
I'm so very sorry for the loss of your Dad, Time Trader.
Wishing you and your family strength in the coming weeks.

Love Geum xxxx