Long story short, my Gran was diagnosed with vascular dementia a while ago, until recently she lived at home with my Grandad. Things started to get worse, my Grandad is frail and caring for her began to make him unwell. My mum, auntie and grandad all tried to work together to help care for her within her home but became too hard. She was in and out of restbite then came home, began to get up several times during the night which really became the last straw, she needed emergency care in a home. Now, she has been staying within a care home for a few weeks and it’s taking a toll on my family and her. My Grandad is no longer who he used to be, he is depressed and doesn’t want anything more than her home, my Mum and Auntie also seem depressed and it’s taking a huge toll on what was an extremely close and happy family. I try to help as much as I can and I feel like family life is never going to be happy again, I find it awkward to speak about within the family, everybody gets upset and I just hold it in and avoid the conversations at all costs, I really need some advice or just somebody to speak to! Anything is appreciated