Morning all
I am after some advice with regard to my mum. I haven't posted for a while and things have been ok but we are struggling with the whole bathing situation. Mum is now doubly incontinent and is prone to water infections so I feel it is imperative that she has regular baths but she refuses point blank. The morning carers will ask her if she wants a bath to which she says No (her language is now very poor and only really says yes & no) If they run her a bath she will go stiff and un-cooperative and refuse to set foot in the bath. I manage to bath her a couple of times a week but I literally almost have to force her into the bath, and I know the carers wouldn't force mum. Once in she is fine and we have an electric seat which aids her getting out but it is almost as though before she gets in, she is afraid of the water. When I try to wash her hair in the bath she then has another panic as she doesn't like the water over her face.
We have thought about trying a shower instead but she finds water over her head disorientating and I have tried to get her to stand in the bath whilst I shower her down with a hand held shower but she now isn't that steady to stand in the bath.
Has anyone had a similar problem of a sudden adversion to the bath and how this has been overcome.
Any suggestions would be greatly received.
Hx
I am after some advice with regard to my mum. I haven't posted for a while and things have been ok but we are struggling with the whole bathing situation. Mum is now doubly incontinent and is prone to water infections so I feel it is imperative that she has regular baths but she refuses point blank. The morning carers will ask her if she wants a bath to which she says No (her language is now very poor and only really says yes & no) If they run her a bath she will go stiff and un-cooperative and refuse to set foot in the bath. I manage to bath her a couple of times a week but I literally almost have to force her into the bath, and I know the carers wouldn't force mum. Once in she is fine and we have an electric seat which aids her getting out but it is almost as though before she gets in, she is afraid of the water. When I try to wash her hair in the bath she then has another panic as she doesn't like the water over her face.
We have thought about trying a shower instead but she finds water over her head disorientating and I have tried to get her to stand in the bath whilst I shower her down with a hand held shower but she now isn't that steady to stand in the bath.
Has anyone had a similar problem of a sudden adversion to the bath and how this has been overcome.
Any suggestions would be greatly received.
Hx