I am wondering if anyone can help me. I am working with an elderly relative who I rather suspect is in the early stages of vascular dementia (Not a medic but sadly seen it 3 times before). My relative is still awaiting a memory test and a diagnosis.
Meantime other relatives - far younger than me and without this particular background - have decided that this person needs organising and fast. A social worker was brought in. Unfortunately, because of covid I couldn't be there for the visit, and can't just pop around. However, I gather the social worker promptly extracted several agreements that people could come into his home to do things. One person arrived the next day and started taking photographs. He couldn't recall having agreed to this. He thought they were going to come and sit with him not go marching around the place without his permission. He phoned to tell me how upset he was and after both of us were initially dismissed - it was all necessary so no good arguing - we eventually got half an apology.
More recently I have been asked to discuss something else with him - something else he was originally supposed to have agreed to. He told me he was not totally averse but wanted to make some modifications to the original idea. This meant my making some inquiries. Before I could do this I got a demand to know whether everything had been fixed yet because time was going on and the latest people being brought in (Private clearing contractors) wanted to start. I wrote back and said we both needed time. I am rather shocked to receive today an email informing me that we are not to be allowed more time and that we are deliberately delaying things which HAVE to be done now. I am told he agreed with the social worker and that is the end of it.
Can anyone advise on the legal rights here? If a social worker decides that someone has mental impairment although they have no diagnosis, and that they must have certain things done in their home and there is initial agreement is the person obliged to accept for ever after? What happens if they don't? If I told him not to open the door, for example (and he remembered not to) could the door be broken down?
Meantime other relatives - far younger than me and without this particular background - have decided that this person needs organising and fast. A social worker was brought in. Unfortunately, because of covid I couldn't be there for the visit, and can't just pop around. However, I gather the social worker promptly extracted several agreements that people could come into his home to do things. One person arrived the next day and started taking photographs. He couldn't recall having agreed to this. He thought they were going to come and sit with him not go marching around the place without his permission. He phoned to tell me how upset he was and after both of us were initially dismissed - it was all necessary so no good arguing - we eventually got half an apology.
More recently I have been asked to discuss something else with him - something else he was originally supposed to have agreed to. He told me he was not totally averse but wanted to make some modifications to the original idea. This meant my making some inquiries. Before I could do this I got a demand to know whether everything had been fixed yet because time was going on and the latest people being brought in (Private clearing contractors) wanted to start. I wrote back and said we both needed time. I am rather shocked to receive today an email informing me that we are not to be allowed more time and that we are deliberately delaying things which HAVE to be done now. I am told he agreed with the social worker and that is the end of it.
Can anyone advise on the legal rights here? If a social worker decides that someone has mental impairment although they have no diagnosis, and that they must have certain things done in their home and there is initial agreement is the person obliged to accept for ever after? What happens if they don't? If I told him not to open the door, for example (and he remembered not to) could the door be broken down?