Hi Robert
I've had quite a few review meetings now, and they seem to follow the same pattern. At Mum's home, the reviews are centred on her care, and any issues I, or the home staff, have regarding her care. If there is anything which concerns me I can raise it at the meeting, although obviously if there was anything major, which there never has been, I'd raise it at the time. I find it to be the best time to discuss small things which are important, but it is never a daunting meeting. It usually involves a senior member of staff and mum's key worker, and myself.So if there is anything you aren't happy about, or if you can see ways of increasing your mum's comfort, the review is a good place to discuss it, as everything said is documented, and may be fed into the care plan. Subjects covered in the past have included clothing, hair care, health issues and even, at my suggestion I supplied a lidded beaker,as I had noticed that, when in hospital, she seemed more comfortable with one than a cup which would spill. As the home is keen to "maintain skills" for the residents, and argenerally a bit anti beakers etc, I raised it at the review. It was documented, I did supply, and she now takes in far more fluid than before. At the review after this, I was thanked for making the suggestion, as it had proved beneficial. So just think about what is best for your mum and her well being and go from there.
Take care
Claire