Hi everyone I’m back in here again. If it’s not one thing it’s another lately. So we have a daily half hour care package arranged by SS. This started Friday just gone. The same day we had a visit from the CPN. So everyone is masked up and in uniforms. The CPN mentioned respite to Dad and said how did he feel about going away for a few weeks to a “guest house”
My mum isn’t very well and it’s very stressful for us all as a family at the moment. Since then Dad has been all over the place. We have had sleepless nights, shaking, fearful type of behaviour, hiding keys, trying to get out the house to “escape”. He has not been able to relax. His cognition is fluctuating. He refused his essential medication last night and I had to ring the out of hours memory clinic number for help. How can we ease Dads distress and fear. How can we get some respite without worrying about him not knowing us when he sees us next? How actually would tge respite happen if he refuses point blank. He agreed to respite to the CPN but it’s obviously played in his mind. His behaviour has become even more erratic. He told my sister he thought someone was coming to take him away. The system for everything is rubbish and does not consider the real needs of people with dementia. I don’t know how many phone calls I have taken from SW, care team, doctors, nurses etc - all terrifying for Dad. ??
My mum isn’t very well and it’s very stressful for us all as a family at the moment. Since then Dad has been all over the place. We have had sleepless nights, shaking, fearful type of behaviour, hiding keys, trying to get out the house to “escape”. He has not been able to relax. His cognition is fluctuating. He refused his essential medication last night and I had to ring the out of hours memory clinic number for help. How can we ease Dads distress and fear. How can we get some respite without worrying about him not knowing us when he sees us next? How actually would tge respite happen if he refuses point blank. He agreed to respite to the CPN but it’s obviously played in his mind. His behaviour has become even more erratic. He told my sister he thought someone was coming to take him away. The system for everything is rubbish and does not consider the real needs of people with dementia. I don’t know how many phone calls I have taken from SW, care team, doctors, nurses etc - all terrifying for Dad. ??