I have just left my husband in an Aged Care Facility so that they can attend a pressure ulcer he has and give me a break. He is livid with me and I feel terrible because when he first became ill I promised I would not place him in care. After 7 years of full on physical and mental health care my own health has deteriorated. I feel really guilty and tearful as if I have betrayed him. My head says don't be silly but my heart is breaking.