GP wants my mother to go in for a week or two. She said we need a break and they can monitor her sleep problems, toilet troubles. I feel such guilt even though I am so tired, she was up 35 hours straight-she just fell asleep. Its the stress and trauma of moving, setting, then moving back, especially when she has severe memory loss. how will she react to coming home to us again? If we do it, whats the best thing to do-me and my sister care for her. should we not visit for awhile and let her settle?should we leave it to the siblings to visit for a few days/ how have you all coped with it?