Hi everyone
Now back home for a few days while Dad is back in respite. We've had a very "up & down" couple of months. Dad is much better physically since they withdrew his Memantine & Citalopram - but mentally he has noticeably declined quite a lot, exhibiting behaviour that we have not seen before in him, which is quite worrying. Dad started singing the same song over & over again all day - we had 4 weeks of "the First Nowell" constantly throughout February and the last few weeks it's been "My Bonnie Lies over the Ocean" from morning till night! Sounds amusing when I read that back - but for anyone who has experienced this - it can get very waring after hearing it 300 times a day. Dad also developed a habit of growling and has become very unco-operative with the carers at home.
Have asked for the Medical Team to review his medication again while he is with them, as I wonder if the Memantine was "keeping a lid" on things....
Taking Dad into respite again on Tuesday was a horribly difficult day. I thought it would be easier this time, as we now know that he is in safe hands & know he settled well there last time, but the place was much busier when he went in this time & the guilt of leaving him there was just awful. Fortunately I resisted the temptation on Tuesday evening to rush back & bundle him into my Micra in some sort of "crazed rescue mission" and I'm relieved to say that he seems fine when I've visited him every afternoon since.
It's good to be back on TP - just catching up on some of the threads & will keep in touch while I'm home.
Very Best Wishes to all
Gill x
Now back home for a few days while Dad is back in respite. We've had a very "up & down" couple of months. Dad is much better physically since they withdrew his Memantine & Citalopram - but mentally he has noticeably declined quite a lot, exhibiting behaviour that we have not seen before in him, which is quite worrying. Dad started singing the same song over & over again all day - we had 4 weeks of "the First Nowell" constantly throughout February and the last few weeks it's been "My Bonnie Lies over the Ocean" from morning till night! Sounds amusing when I read that back - but for anyone who has experienced this - it can get very waring after hearing it 300 times a day. Dad also developed a habit of growling and has become very unco-operative with the carers at home.
Have asked for the Medical Team to review his medication again while he is with them, as I wonder if the Memantine was "keeping a lid" on things....
Taking Dad into respite again on Tuesday was a horribly difficult day. I thought it would be easier this time, as we now know that he is in safe hands & know he settled well there last time, but the place was much busier when he went in this time & the guilt of leaving him there was just awful. Fortunately I resisted the temptation on Tuesday evening to rush back & bundle him into my Micra in some sort of "crazed rescue mission" and I'm relieved to say that he seems fine when I've visited him every afternoon since.
It's good to be back on TP - just catching up on some of the threads & will keep in touch while I'm home.
Very Best Wishes to all
Gill x