A question which is dividing family and friend opinion. Basically my youngest son, a fellow karaoke enthusiast has booked and paid for a 3 night break so he and I can to go to Benidorm for a weekend of dad and lad time karaoke and occasional alcoholic refreshment for March 6th for three nights. This was before Pauline was hospitalised and ok with everyone at that time. However, P is now in hospital and will be in during the proposed and paid for stay, booked and paid for by my son. Question is, if I go, which I have a mind to, will i be wrong in leaving visits to others and swanning off on what my lad not only sees as a deserved weekend away in my favourite holiday spot, but also my swan song on my previous travelling and holidaying lifestyle? My kids spilt on it and only one of her sons that I have asked is also in favour but does that make it right? So confused.