Hi everyone, dad goes to a local home for day care 4days a week (9-4pm). They have been trying to increase his time there to eventually try respite over night. Last night was the first time they’ve tried to keep him and it failed, we had to pick him up at midnight.
They rang a couple of times to ask for advise as he would not go to bed and was going into other residents room and waking them up. He wouldn’t take his hat and coat off so he was hot and sweating. He was trying to get out and talked about mum constantly, becoming frantic as he couldn’t find her. He wouldn’t sit down or rest and started to get aggressive. The behaviour wasn’t really the reason they called us to pick him up, they were genuinely concerned about his wellbeing. Sadly dad is like this at home too, he rarely goes to bed and spend most of the night wondering. He also doesn’t know mum most of the time so still becomes distressed because he can’t find her.
My question is what happens now? Our mental health nurse has in the past said she didn’t think respite would work and once we’d tried it she could then arrange for dad to go into hospital. Is this sectioning? If it is can we stop it? I don’t want dad taken away. I fear they will just drug him up and break what spirit he has left.
Any experience/ advice please x
They rang a couple of times to ask for advise as he would not go to bed and was going into other residents room and waking them up. He wouldn’t take his hat and coat off so he was hot and sweating. He was trying to get out and talked about mum constantly, becoming frantic as he couldn’t find her. He wouldn’t sit down or rest and started to get aggressive. The behaviour wasn’t really the reason they called us to pick him up, they were genuinely concerned about his wellbeing. Sadly dad is like this at home too, he rarely goes to bed and spend most of the night wondering. He also doesn’t know mum most of the time so still becomes distressed because he can’t find her.
My question is what happens now? Our mental health nurse has in the past said she didn’t think respite would work and once we’d tried it she could then arrange for dad to go into hospital. Is this sectioning? If it is can we stop it? I don’t want dad taken away. I fear they will just drug him up and break what spirit he has left.
Any experience/ advice please x