DaisyG said:What I find hard to 'understand' is how they ALL can be thinking 'wrong'?
Why should I keep things a SECRET ?
I'm in thiis for the long term, and have no plans to go anywhere.
DaisyG
Daisy, many years ago I faced a similar situation altho' not around AD. It was as if there was a complete conspiracy to make me feel inadequate, at fault, etc. This was not in my family (thank goodness) but at work.
Like you, I couldn't understand it and raged against it. (These people were my FRIENDS!!) Eventually I came to understand it IS a conspiracy - for whatever reason they choose to believe and act in this way. (It may be that at least some of them are secretly on your side but too scared to go against the others who are stronger/ more vocal/ etc.)
I simply left the job (much easier than leaving a family, I know) and cut them off completely. Life immediately started to improve, but 20 years later I still bear the scars.
May I suggest you consider some counselling for youself to help you deal with this rejection of their's?? This is because such pain, hurt, rage and rejection as you feel (I know! I've felt much the same) eats away at you and causes illness (either physical or depression). Please guard your own health by having some professional help - you deserve to come out of this awful situation as unscathed as possible.
Thinking of you, Nell.