My 80 year old husband has VD and Alzheimers which has been coming on for three years. It is now formally diagnosed. He is fairly independant, if he knows where I am, and is still driving the car to the local town 2 miles away. He bowls occassionally and goes to church but he cannot help in the house or garden and gets in a muddle dressing sometimes. If I go out, leaving a note on the kitchen table, he still wanders looking for me.
I have a hereditary auto-immune disease, part coeliac and shaking arms. I have had a stroke and a TIA. I am getting increasingly tired and would love a week off but I dont know how to arrange it. His son and daughter have him to stay 2 or 3 nights twice a year but wont give up a weeks holiday to come and look after him.
Many of you must have found ways round this so please could I have a few suggestions?
I have a hereditary auto-immune disease, part coeliac and shaking arms. I have had a stroke and a TIA. I am getting increasingly tired and would love a week off but I dont know how to arrange it. His son and daughter have him to stay 2 or 3 nights twice a year but wont give up a weeks holiday to come and look after him.
Many of you must have found ways round this so please could I have a few suggestions?