In a couple of weeks my mum is going for two weeks respite in a home not far from me due to family holidays etc. I've mentioned it to her a few times trying not to mention the word "home" and just telling her it's a house run by a lady I know where they will have people to look after her. Now I'm beginning to wonder what would happen if we get there and she refuses to stay! What would we do? Long drawn out persuasion or run out and hope for the best! I don't know what to expect. Anyone else been in this position?