When my M-in-L came to live with us three years ago we naively thought that Social Services would help us find occasional respite care! Not so.
We're not asking for any funding, just help with finding a room for a week or two but it seems that if you're self-funding you're on your own. Never mind the fact that it is so stressful trying to find somewhere; no care home wants to commit themselves to a short term place more than a couple of days in advance because they don't want to pass over the chance of someone coming along who wants a permanent room.
M-in-L refuses to have someone come in to look after her.
We do get three hours a week respite care from SS and we're grateful for that but a holiday would be good........!
You know those posters you see in libraries, surgeries etc. "Are you a carer? Who cares for you?" Er......
We're not asking for any funding, just help with finding a room for a week or two but it seems that if you're self-funding you're on your own. Never mind the fact that it is so stressful trying to find somewhere; no care home wants to commit themselves to a short term place more than a couple of days in advance because they don't want to pass over the chance of someone coming along who wants a permanent room.
M-in-L refuses to have someone come in to look after her.
We do get three hours a week respite care from SS and we're grateful for that but a holiday would be good........!
You know those posters you see in libraries, surgeries etc. "Are you a carer? Who cares for you?" Er......