My husband is in a day care three afternoons a week which is wonderful for him and me. They have about ten people there with two attendants who organize games, etc or leave them to watch tv. My concern is, if I leave him in respite care, say, for a week, will he think I would leave him there every time I take him to daycare? He may refuse to go to daycare anymore? Should I take the chance? He has moderate Alzheimer's and is progressing slowly. Diagnosed about five years ago. Many problems with th "sundowners" addition to this terrible illness. I'll appreciate any ones experience on this.