Shortly, I am putting my mum into Respite Care for the 1st time.
I have been telling her that she is going for 3 nights but I don't really know whether to keep on about it or just let her go with the flow, as she usually goes to this nursing home while I am at work.
Also friends have asked me whether I think they should visit while she is there. In one way she would love to see her friends but I think it would unsettle her and she will want to come home with them - so wonder if anyone could give me some advice.
I am really looking forward to the break, I do feel guilty but I am going away to visit friends so feel better as I won't be at home to wonder how she is - although I know it won't be that easy.
Thank you for all you help, I don't post very often on the site but I am often reading how other people are dealing with this awful disease.
Best Wishes to you
Jane
I have been telling her that she is going for 3 nights but I don't really know whether to keep on about it or just let her go with the flow, as she usually goes to this nursing home while I am at work.
Also friends have asked me whether I think they should visit while she is there. In one way she would love to see her friends but I think it would unsettle her and she will want to come home with them - so wonder if anyone could give me some advice.
I am really looking forward to the break, I do feel guilty but I am going away to visit friends so feel better as I won't be at home to wonder how she is - although I know it won't be that easy.
Thank you for all you help, I don't post very often on the site but I am often reading how other people are dealing with this awful disease.
Best Wishes to you
Jane