I do try my best not to over step the mark when it comes to my MIL! As she has family who are aware of the situation...but we the ones living closest to her. Distance wise. So can 'pop in', can 'resolve' a problem. But now just heard from my partner that her sister replied to her that my MIL thinks "the sun shines out of my ....!" to me that is resentment! Seriously don't know wether I'm coming or going with this now as I want to be of support to my partner but seriously can do without the 'resentment' factor. Have enough to deal with when I have my own mum to care about. And is making me think twice about how I proceed now. I've just spent the morning with MIL to get her back on par with eating and get this in the ear........! I thought I was helping but that comment was hurful! Maybe need to just completely back off.