I don't often post but I thought I'd see if anyone has any suggestions. My hubby is now using pads both day and night. While during the day he needs help as he still sometimes gets 'the urge' but can't sort out the pads, I can sort.
The problems are in bed he takes off his pants and removes the pad, then either shredding it, or then peeing sat on the edge of the bed...or both.
He says it's not him takes it off!! (I sleep in another room)
I then have him to sort, the bed to change, bedroom to clean, and carpet sometimes to clean in the morning, along with the extra washing. By the time I've put him back in bed, I'm so angry and upset, then I feel guilty as he feels upset at causing me the work.
I don't know how much longer I can carry on with this? Is it yet another phase? This week it's happened THREE nights. Sorry for moaning on.
The problems are in bed he takes off his pants and removes the pad, then either shredding it, or then peeing sat on the edge of the bed...or both.
He says it's not him takes it off!! (I sleep in another room)
I then have him to sort, the bed to change, bedroom to clean, and carpet sometimes to clean in the morning, along with the extra washing. By the time I've put him back in bed, I'm so angry and upset, then I feel guilty as he feels upset at causing me the work.
I don't know how much longer I can carry on with this? Is it yet another phase? This week it's happened THREE nights. Sorry for moaning on.