Ever since my husband went into a care home eighteen months ago, I have frequently considered bringing him back home again. He is becoming less mobile and so more manageable in many ways.
He is very impaired and has little language but he still responds to classical music and he enjoys food. The care home food is pretty grim and the sitting room TV is usually tuned to Capital Radio or sport, depending on which carers are on duty.
I visit him for a couple of hours each day and take him to his room to listen to CD's when I can get him to move.
The carers are kind but the home is not run well and it seems to me that his quality of life would be so much better if he were in his own home.
I know there would be a lot to put in place to ensure his care and safety and that it would be very restricting for me but caring for him would give me peace of mind.
Has anyone done this and how did it work out? I really would welcome feedback.
He is very impaired and has little language but he still responds to classical music and he enjoys food. The care home food is pretty grim and the sitting room TV is usually tuned to Capital Radio or sport, depending on which carers are on duty.
I visit him for a couple of hours each day and take him to his room to listen to CD's when I can get him to move.
The carers are kind but the home is not run well and it seems to me that his quality of life would be so much better if he were in his own home.
I know there would be a lot to put in place to ensure his care and safety and that it would be very restricting for me but caring for him would give me peace of mind.
Has anyone done this and how did it work out? I really would welcome feedback.