Sadly the time may well have come to activate my Dad's EPA that he granted to me - twelve years ago! You can't say we didn't plan ahead. One thing trouble me, in that I have to notify him of my intent to register the EPA. The state he's in, the last thing he needs now is his son telling him I regard him as mentally incapable of managing his own affairs... I see that it is possible to tell the Court of Protection that you wish to not notify the donor, if that is likely to cause distress (it would!), but that you have to have evidence from the doctor for that (I'm sure our GP would do this). Has anyone had any experience of this?