I have both parents with reasonably severe dementia. They live on their own at seperate addresses and have no daily carer. Both are in denial and think they are managing but they are slowly falling apart. Both lie to me as they are frightened to go into a home.
The worst thing is both of their drivers' licences have run out and they are both refusing to stop driving. They are driving illegally, no MOT and I am guessing insurance but I am not allowed access to the paperwork. My mum recenlty wrote her car off (its hard to make sense of what she remembers) and was convinced by a car salesman to buy a new car.
The social services now say I have to make a plan to stop them driving. They are refusing to give me their keys. I have reported my dad to the DVLA (medical team) but heard nothing back.
Am I culpable as I am aware a serious offence crime is being committed - dad has no licence, no MOT, no insurance.... what if he kills someone, could I get into a legal spat? Should I now report him to the police? And mum, same as above?
They are both not listening to any common sense.
The worst thing is both of their drivers' licences have run out and they are both refusing to stop driving. They are driving illegally, no MOT and I am guessing insurance but I am not allowed access to the paperwork. My mum recenlty wrote her car off (its hard to make sense of what she remembers) and was convinced by a car salesman to buy a new car.
The social services now say I have to make a plan to stop them driving. They are refusing to give me their keys. I have reported my dad to the DVLA (medical team) but heard nothing back.
Am I culpable as I am aware a serious offence crime is being committed - dad has no licence, no MOT, no insurance.... what if he kills someone, could I get into a legal spat? Should I now report him to the police? And mum, same as above?
They are both not listening to any common sense.