Mum went into a care home during Covid and had what seems to be a rapid decline in her condition. She has mixed dementia and I think now we hadn't realised how advanced it was (she was previously at home with carers 4x a day for a few minutes). She always seemed happy in herself and I think we missed signs of how bad things were getting. We think that having 24 hour care meant her advanced condition was picked up more easily there.
We couldn't visit because of Covid and she was admitted to hospital with dehydration after a few weeks, refusing to eat and drink (she can swallow, she has just opted not to). The 2nd time she was in hospital they consulted with us and it was agreed not to keep putting her on drips because it will be prolonging the inevitable. She is very confused and drowsy most of the time.
We are now allowed to visit her in the home one at a time, which is reassuring because although she is very weak and is just on her back in bed, we can see she is not aware of what's going on and doesn't seem to be in pain at the moment. She mostly opens her eyes and is glazed but occasionally seems to have a minute or 2 where he tries to talk and will smile or say random phrases. IV fluids were stopped 8 days ago and the home have a duty to offer food and drink. She is occasionally having 25 - 50ml of a drink per day, but it seems this is to make her mouth more comfortable when she is more awake and not thirst as such. Right now she is stable. The doctors and staff says she doesn't have long, but how much longer can she go on like this?
We couldn't visit because of Covid and she was admitted to hospital with dehydration after a few weeks, refusing to eat and drink (she can swallow, she has just opted not to). The 2nd time she was in hospital they consulted with us and it was agreed not to keep putting her on drips because it will be prolonging the inevitable. She is very confused and drowsy most of the time.
We are now allowed to visit her in the home one at a time, which is reassuring because although she is very weak and is just on her back in bed, we can see she is not aware of what's going on and doesn't seem to be in pain at the moment. She mostly opens her eyes and is glazed but occasionally seems to have a minute or 2 where he tries to talk and will smile or say random phrases. IV fluids were stopped 8 days ago and the home have a duty to offer food and drink. She is occasionally having 25 - 50ml of a drink per day, but it seems this is to make her mouth more comfortable when she is more awake and not thirst as such. Right now she is stable. The doctors and staff says she doesn't have long, but how much longer can she go on like this?