My wife has had dementia for 5 years and we've reached a point where I feel I need help, mainly with her personal hygiene. She is exremely grumpy and uncooperative during this process and it's causing quite a bit of friction. I accept that she finds my helping her embarassing and do my best to keep calm. Now my wife is convinced I am going to get a 'stranger' in to help her wash and dress. She says she wil move out if this happens. I'm hoping a health professional can persuade her otherwise. Any comments on what my chances might be?