Hi, I'm new here. My Mum was diagnosed with mixed dementia last February. (Alzheimer's and vascular). She is hit and miss with her medication so a dosset box was prescribed, that didn't help either so they issued an electronic pill box. She 'lost' it only to be found in her wardrobe and has.today rang her GP saying she doesn't want It. I am personally at the end of my tether as every single time I try to do things to help her she blocks it. I have asked.for her bills to be put in my name as she forgets to pay them but she said no, she refused for me.to have power of attorney, won't be encouraged to have a bath (it's getting on for two years since she did) , she doesn't clean the house, change her bed or cook for herself anymore. I am doing all I can to keep her afloat and out of a care home but I'm so drained as having to constantly battle with her for every single thing. She is resentful of my help and when I took the electronic pill box to her last week , told me she was dying and it was down to me. I know deep down that she can't help it but I have severe depression and anxiety and just don't know how long I can cope with it. Any help or advice would be much appreciated please