Hi all, how do I get my fil to put his laundry in the basket for washing. It's a constant battle to get him to change his clothes but when he does he puts them back in the cupboard or wardrobe and just reuse them later in the week. He lives alone in sheltered housing with carers going in daily for meals and medication. They are supposed to shower him but he has refused for about 4 months now. He does wash but not always effectively. I visit every day to check on him and do the laundry and the general cleaning. I find I am constantly going through his cupboards and drawers trying to find the worn underwear etc. He gets very annoyed about this always insisting he has already done the laundry even though it's been many months since he could remember how to use the machine. I've now put a white board in his bedroom with reminders on but he has told me he will only do it if he feels like it. So far he hasn't felt like it. Any ideas