My mother is in desperate need of some help adjusting to my dads dementia. He has been in a home for about two years and has deteriorated dramatically. We are at a palliative care stage with him. My mum is on the verge of a breakdown and our focus now lies with her. Who can we turn to? Do we go to our GP and explain the situation? We were unsure of what was out there in terms of help. We need a professional not a coffee morning with well meaning relatives, I think we are beyond this stage now.