Whereabouts in the country are you? the reason I ask is that there some useful local organisations around but it is a bit patchy. You are obviously and understandably stressed by the situation and want to move your aunt before she settles fully. I understand that and how stressful it is to be in that situation. I still think that your local carers organisation is a good bet. If anyone came to our carers cafe with that question they would have a tonne of information in less than 5 minutes - all the local ins and outs lol and a lot of friendship and support to boot x