I recently went to visit my mum this weekend. It went ok but also went a bit pair shaped towards the end because my mum still tries to talk to me like I am a kid and I am an adult woman of 52. The straw that broke the camels back was when she told me (or very strongly advised me) to get a hair cut. She wants me to have short hair. I want to have shoulder length hair. We are never going to agree on this so we will always argue when we see each other which is only every couple of months because my mum lives four hours from me. Any advice? I cannot tie my hair back because I tried doing that and my mum did not like that either. Her only answer is cut it short.