Hi everyone,
Hello, I'm new here and hoping to search out some advice on how best we can help my Mum with this condition.
The Memory Clinic recently confirmed that Mum has mild vascular dementia, we knew something major was up but still it really shocks when confirmed, they say there is no medication to help her or support groups for this stage, though they do send a nurse once a week to help with medication for depression.
We don't think she has suffered any strokes but can't be sure, she has had a few hallucinations that we know of though, suffers extremely bad short term memory and constantly repeats herself. She is still good company but conversation is goes round in the same cycles, over and over.
She is very lonely on a day to day basis, since my Dad died and I guess we put it down the initial symptoms to grief really. My brother is local, I am long distance but I ring every day and visit as often as possible.
The nurse is telling us to sort out Power of Attorney asap but has also told us that they will not be telling her of her condition as they deem it detrimental to her.
I don't understand this, she has had a scan so will be looking for her results. What will they tell her?
The nurse has offered to be present when my brother and I speak to her about Power of Attorney, but how can we approach it without disclosing her condition?
I am especially concerned as she speaks to me about being locked away, which I tell her is not what happens these days. I am visiting next week with the intention being to broach this - do you have any advice?
Thanks for reading this so far, I do appreciate it. Any advice would be much appreciated.
Sorry for such a long post!
Thanks,
Ingres
Hello, I'm new here and hoping to search out some advice on how best we can help my Mum with this condition.
The Memory Clinic recently confirmed that Mum has mild vascular dementia, we knew something major was up but still it really shocks when confirmed, they say there is no medication to help her or support groups for this stage, though they do send a nurse once a week to help with medication for depression.
We don't think she has suffered any strokes but can't be sure, she has had a few hallucinations that we know of though, suffers extremely bad short term memory and constantly repeats herself. She is still good company but conversation is goes round in the same cycles, over and over.
She is very lonely on a day to day basis, since my Dad died and I guess we put it down the initial symptoms to grief really. My brother is local, I am long distance but I ring every day and visit as often as possible.
The nurse is telling us to sort out Power of Attorney asap but has also told us that they will not be telling her of her condition as they deem it detrimental to her.
I don't understand this, she has had a scan so will be looking for her results. What will they tell her?
The nurse has offered to be present when my brother and I speak to her about Power of Attorney, but how can we approach it without disclosing her condition?
I am especially concerned as she speaks to me about being locked away, which I tell her is not what happens these days. I am visiting next week with the intention being to broach this - do you have any advice?
Thanks for reading this so far, I do appreciate it. Any advice would be much appreciated.
Sorry for such a long post!
Thanks,
Ingres